So, here’s the deal. My credit card, which was clearly misused, ended up being used at a hotel by Mr. Jeremy Robinson and some woman named Miss Jay. I’m honestly so tired of being thrown under the bus because someone can’t manage their own anxiety or these completely delusional thoughts about things that aren’t even real. And let’s be clear—I’m not okay with how he tried to use her mental health as an excuse for why he’s running around, doing whatever he wants. Like, seriously?
Now, let’s talk about Tamar Braxton. She’s been feeling down, and honestly, it’s all thanks to Jeremy Robinson, the supposed “man of her dreams.” What happened? Well, Jeremy got exposed when he booked a hotel room with another woman—and, wait for it—used Tamar’s credit card to pay for it! Like, if you’re gonna cheat, at least don’t be so careless.
But here’s the thing—it’s not just about the cheating. Apparently, Jeremy’s had his eyes on Tamar’s money for a while, and sadly, he’s not the first guy to try that. But that’s just the start. Rumor has it, they secretly got married, and before anyone could find out, they were already divorced. What was going on there? Was it the cheating that ended things, or was Jeremy just after her money from the start? We’ve got a lot to unpack here.
Tamar didn’t hold back. She said, “And I got with you, we got married, and I married you after you ate somebody’s whole booty sandwich.” Yeah, she really went there.
On September 3rd, 2024, Tamar finally had enough of the lies. She went live on Instagram to put it all out there. She said she was just chilling at home when she got a notification about her credit card being used at the Four Seasons Hotel in New Orleans. And just for the record, she keeps those notifications on in case her son orders something random on DoorDash or Amazon.
“So, I’m just chilling, watching TV, when I get this notification that my credit card’s been used—on a date that I know for sure I wasn’t in New Orleans—for a charge at the Four Seasons Hotel. And I’m sitting there like, ‘Hold up, I’m not in New Orleans!’”
Of course, Tamar wasn’t going to let that slide. She put on her detective hat and called the hotel. And guess what? Turns out, her supposed love had booked a room under his name—and another guest by the name of M. Jay. As you can imagine, Tamar was livid. It didn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out what was going on. So, she confronted him immediately. But instead of owning up to it, like many caught in a lie, JR flipped it on her and told her to “take her meds.”
“My card was used at the hotel by Mr. Jeremy Robinson and his guest, Miss Jay. And when I asked him about it, he got nasty with me and told me to go take my meds.”
This was a low blow, especially since Tamar has been very open about her struggles with mental health, and JR knew all about it. For him to throw that in her face was just wrong.
“Just the other day, Rob comes at me like, ‘Well, now it’s your business because people think I have mental health issues.’ And yeah, I do have mental health issues, but I’ve been honest about my journey. I’ve been honest with him from the start. For those who get it, you know how long it can take to realize you need medication. For me, it took years, especially after losing my sister Tracy.”
“So, I hit up Jay, like, ‘Did you stay at the Four Seasons this weekend?’ And he was like, ‘Yeah, I did,’ but immediately got defensive. I’m thinking, ‘What’s your problem?’ We’re supposed to be cool. We’re not together, but we had an understanding, right?”
Naturally, Tamar wasn’t about to let his shady behavior slide. She went live and aired him out. And the more she dug into this “side chick” situation, the more dirt she uncovered. Not only were Jeremy and this woman following each other, but they were all up in each other’s comments. That wasn’t even the worst part—Tamar started to wonder if there were more women. For all she knew, there could’ve been others. She only found out about Jay because he slipped up by using her card.
After realizing how badly he’d messed up by bringing up Tamar’s meds, Jeremy tried to fix things in the most predictable way—he tried to return the money.
“When I posted that, it wasn’t out of spite. I only did it because he told me to take my meds, and later, I took it down because, honestly, the girl didn’t deserve to be dragged into it. She’s young and beautiful, and to be real, they all were. You know what I mean? They were following and commenting on each other’s posts, so I assumed it was her. But honestly, it could’ve been four or five different women. She was my friend, and we talked about things. It wasn’t even about her, really. The truth is, when I confronted you about my card being used on one of your side chicks, you told me to take my meds. And that’s why we’re here. On top of everything, you tried to Cash App me last night, as if that would fix things.
But no way was that going to save him. Tamar was livid, and she wasn’t going to stay quiet. She put JR on blast on Instagram, posting a screenshot of his side chick’s account with the caption: ‘Played in my face for a 25-year-old. SMH. Took my jewelry, took me to Turks, and the whole time had a whole [ __ ]. I hate you, Jeremy Robinson.’
She didn’t stop there. In another story, she posted: ‘If I’m so “mentally unstable,” then give me back my chain and platinum Rolex. Guess I wasn’t in my right mind, right? Real story on you dropping on my YouTube in 30 minutes. Should’ve listened to everybody.’
Later, Tamar went live and apologized for not covering up the girl’s IG handle. She said she meant to block it out, but she was so angry about what JR said that she wasn’t thinking clearly.
‘I didn’t mean to post her like that. It was just collateral damage—it could’ve been anyone.’
She went on, ‘He told me he was out here with [ _ ] [ _ ] [ __ ], but he’s not even doing anything for real. I didn’t say he cheated on me. I said he played me. Because, the truth is, you were supposed to show up for me on Sunday, and you didn’t. Like I told him, this has to be a two-way street. I can’t keep showing up for you if you don’t do the same for me.’
What’s crazy is, instead of laying low like most people would in his situation, Jeremy decided to address the drama head-on. The 49-year-old posted a video saying he was tired of being painted as the bad guy. ‘I can’t keep getting thrown under the bus because someone can’t control their anxiety or these delusional thoughts about things that aren’t real.’ But fans weren’t having it. One person clapped back, ‘JR, if you’re tired of looking like the villain, maybe stop doing villain stuff.’”
Jeremy had a few interesting things to say about his situation with Tamar, and fans definitely took notice. According to him, he and Tamar hadn’t been together for six months—they were just friends. He also made it super clear that he had set some solid boundaries. In other words, he wasn’t emotionally or physically available to her, if you know what I mean. He did admit to booking the hotel, but explained that he was in New Orleans for a funeral. He wasn’t seeing anyone, and even if he were, it wouldn’t have been Tamar’s business since they were just friends.
“I’ve been single for the last six months, and we’ve been trying to figure out what it looks like to be friends again. I’ve made it very clear where I stand. You can date whoever you want, and I’ll date when I’m ready. I’m not emotionally or physically available to you.”
He went on to explain the hotel situation: “I booked my room at the Four Seasons through Booking.com, but it turns out the card I used—same last three numbers—was linked to something we booked months ago. No big deal, right? We’re talking about $900 here. While I was in New Orleans, I was there for a funeral, a close friend of mine passed away. I spent time with his family and extended my stay to reset. I didn’t meet anyone at the hotel, wasn’t on a date, nothing like that. And honestly, even if I was, we’re friends—why would I hide that?”
It seems like Jeremy was telling the truth, especially since Tamar herself referred to their relationship as a “friendship” during her Instagram Live. “No, we’re not together. That’s very clear, right? But we have an understanding of our friendship.”
With that in mind, Jeremy stood firm. He denied all the accusations Tamar threw at him, saying he never led her on and that whatever loyalty she thought he owed her was all in her head. “Things got heated, and next thing I know, I’m on her story being accused of things that just aren’t true. I’ve never led Tamar Braxton on, and I never will.”
“There are people—I don’t usually like to name-drop, but hey, Carlos King, you played a part in this. You’re one of the reasons we became friends. But I’ve always been clear about my boundaries and made it known that all I wanted was a friendship.”
Now, as for the woman Tamar called out, Jeremy insists she’s just a friend. And about the money Tamar accused him of taking? He said he’s already contacted the hotel to have the charges switched to his card and refunded Tamar.
What’s really interesting is that the woman, known as Jayen, actually responded to Tamar’s claims on Instagram. She commented on a post by The Jasmine Brand, which covered the drama, saying, “There’s no tea here. None of this is true. These accusations are wild and have consequences. Tamar, you’re wrong. Period.”
Jeremy also had something to say. He left a comment that read, “All lies. She even called me with the wrong name, saying I must’ve been on a date. We could literally call the Four Seasons and ask if I’ve ever checked in with someone else or had another name on my reservation. Are we really doing this over $1,100 that’s already been refunded? This is sad. Carry on, Ms. Braxton.”
So what exactly is Tamar so upset about? Some fans think she might still want JR back. It’s not the craziest theory out there. Everyone knows Tamar’s always had a thing for Jeremy. They first met back in 2023 on Peacock’s reality show, Queens Court, and it seemed like love at first sight. By the finale on March 16, 2023, Jeremy had proposed. But not every fairytale has a happy ending, and for Tamar, walking down the aisle wasn’t in the cards.
On October 2, 2023, Jeremy surprised fans by announcing their breakup instead of wedding plans. He wrote, “Yes, Tamar and I are no longer together. I ended the relationship to focus on getting back to positive energy and becoming a better person. What happened, well, that’s private.”
But two months later, JR shocked everyone again with another post on Instagram announcing their reconciliation. He wrote, “I’m committed to loving this woman forever, and I’m so grateful for all the love and support from family, friends, and fans.”
This version feels more conversational and human, while still keeping the details intact.
Fans had mixed reactions to what went down. Jeremy ended up sleeping with Tamar’s arch-nemesis, Tommy Lee, and Tommy wasted no time blasting the affair all over social media, clearly aiming to hurt Tamar as much as possible. To make things worse, Tommy claimed JR had been badmouthing Tamar behind her back.
“One thing, JR, you really don’t want to mess with me. You don’t want me to expose what you told me—that you kicked her out and she went back to her mom’s house. Not Mrs. Braxton, not the singer with a ‘sold-out tour’ that you told me was all just a flex. You said it was all fake, no sold-out tour. You told me she was messy, that she went back to her mom’s. And you told me all this when I had barely known you for a week.”
But the real jaw-dropper? Tommy gave explicit details about how JR had been intimate with her. “Girl, I wouldn’t take him seriously. He did his thing with me, and I sent him on his way. I should’ve recorded it, but I wanted to keep it private.”
After all that, no one expected Tamar to get back with JR. But there she was, in his Instagram post, wrapped in his arms again. If she could forgive him for being with her enemy, it seems clear she still had feelings for him, even after he broke off their engagement and suggested they just be friends. Maybe that’s why she went with him on that Turks and Caicos vacation and got him a diamond-encrusted chain for his birthday. She was holding onto hope, but JR seemed to have other plans.
A lot of fans believe JR was just using Tamar for fame. One person commented, “Tamar has completely embarrassed herself. This man is just in it for the clout. He’s an opportunist.” Some even suggested he might’ve been eyeing the Braxton family’s money. After all, Tamar’s family is wealthy, and let’s be honest, does anyone really believe he ‘accidentally’ mixed up the cards? Even when they were ‘just friends,’ he was being treated like royalty.
Now, here’s the big question: Were Tamar and JR actually married? In a second Instagram Live, Tamar revealed something unexpected—they were, in fact, married during this whole mess.
“When things like this happen, men always say, ‘Oh, she’s crazy,’ or ‘We weren’t together,’ or ‘I wasn’t leading her on.’ We’ve heard it a million times. But let me tell you, I didn’t invite myself to any birthday parties. He told me he wanted me there. He didn’t mention the status of our relationship because we were still married.”
Tamar was just trying to save their marriage. “Y’all have seen this man drag me and embarrass me for the past six months. I’ve been taking all the hits, apologizing, and trying to fix our marriage.” Then, during their Turks and Caicos trip, she was blindsided by divorce papers. That’s when she found out it was really over.
“I got an email,” Tamar said. JR had filed for divorce after six months of them being estranged, though Tamar insists it was a mutual decision, and JR only filed because he’s a lawyer.
After that emotional rant, Tamar announced she was taking a break from social media—which makes total sense after everything she’s been through. Her rant even tied into a cryptic tweet she posted a few weeks earlier. She wrote, “Y’all have no idea. The gaslighting is crazy. I’m going back into treatment. Praying my marriage can be saved and my life spared. My family is awful.”
In another tweet, she said, “JR means the world to me. Thank God for him. My husband and kids saved my life, but I’m still so upset with my life. My family is toxic. I should’ve never gone back to Braxton Family Values.”
And here’s where things get really interesting. A YouTuber, Chronicles Speaks, managed to dig up their marriage license. Turns out, Tamar and JR were actually married on February 4th, 2024—just two months after the Tommy Lee scandal.
If you’re thinking Tamar rushed into this whole thing, you’d be wrong. Turns out, the couple actually went through premarital counseling before they signed the papers. One of the documents reads, “This certifies that Jeremy Robinson and Tamar Braxton completed a premarital education course on January 11, 2024, meeting the requirements under section 19-3-20.1 of Georgia law.” But here’s the kicker—the course only lasted six hours. Makes you wonder if they might not be in this mess if they’d done a six-month course instead.
Chronicles Speaks also got hold of the divorce papers, which say, “Jeremy Robinson files this petition for divorce against Tamar Estine Braxton, with no minor children.” Since they don’t have kids together, that part checks out. But what really grabbed fans’ attention was the date of separation—March 21, 2024—meaning they were married for barely a month.
Looking at the timeline and hearing both sides, it seems like these two just weren’t a good fit, no matter what fans might’ve thought. They both had their issues. Tamar was hanging on to Jr, hoping to work things out even while the divorce was in progress, and Jr definitely crossed the line by using her credit card and telling her to take her meds.
Fans are all over this. Some think Tamar should just cut ties for good. One person commented, “I believe Tamar, but the fact that she’s still calling him her friend while they’re married and seeing other people? Girl, just get a divorce and move on from this stress.” Others are hoping this might lead Tamar to drop some new music—there’s nothing like a breakup to fuel some fiery tracks. One fan said, “Tamar needs to channel all this energy into the studio and give us a new album.”
What do you think? Will Tamar go after Jr again, or is she finally ready to move on? Let us know in the comments!
