Hey, what’s up, y’all? How’s everyone doing today? So, if your name is Shan Diddy Coles, I guess you could say you’re definitely getting it from your mama. But wait—let me back up. There’s this explosive article in Rolling Stone that’s got people talking, and I might even go live to talk about it later. So, here’s the tea: Diddy’s childhood friend is out here saying that Diddy’s… let’s just say, unique behavior didn’t come from hanging around the billionaires he knew—it came from his mom, the one with the iconic 30-inch bust down.
When I first heard this, I was like, “Hmm, that actually makes sense.” Now, do we know what really went down in Diddy’s childhood home? Not exactly. But could something have happened that shaped who he is today? Maybe. And then there’s the time when his mom, Janice Colmes, had to apologize after Diddy acted a fool and said he can’t always tell the difference between what’s real and what’s fake. I was like, “Wait, is she admitting he’s dealing with a mental health issue here?” It seemed like a bit of a plea for public sympathy, but I don’t know if that’s the right move.
Now, back to the wild part. According to this childhood friend, Janice Colmes allegedly used to throw some wild sex parties at their Mount Vernon home when Diddy was growing up. Yeah, you heard that right. This info comes from an article on AllHipHop.com, based on the Rolling Stone story. The friend thinks that these parties might have influenced Diddy’s “freaky” side.
Do I believe it? It’s definitely possible. At this point, I’m not ruling anything out. But let’s also not forget—Diddy is a hustler. He might’ve gone to those parties, looked around, and thought, “I can do this better,” because let’s be real, those Hampton parties before Diddy came on the scene were kinda whack. He definitely made it bigger, better, and way more exciting.
Let’s get into this article because, seriously, you can’t make this stuff up. Tim “Dog” Patterson, a longtime friend of Diddy’s, recently opened up in the new documentary Diddy: The Making of a Bad Boy for Rolling Stone about some of the wild parties Diddy’s mom used to throw. He explained that the atmosphere at these events was potentially desensitizing, especially for the kids who were around. Diddy was always there, too, hanging out at his mom’s parties. But before we dive too deep into that, remember that video with Diddy and his mom? If not, let me refresh your memory—because it was everything.
Here’s a quick look at the clip:
Diddy introduces his mom: “Yeah, let me introduce you to my mom—call her mom Dukes.” They’re just chilling together. Diddy says, “I love you.” She says, “I love you too.” Then he goes on: “She’s doing her thing, but we’re not gonna start. Yeah, my mom’s single.” He talks about how his mom knows how to have a good time. “She’s not sitting around the house, she’s out here moving and shaking. She even comes with me to the strip club. I don’t care, it’s real.”
He then adds, “She told me, ‘Keep moving, baby. Keep moving.’ She doesn’t stop. She can touch the floor with her palms, flat.”
Look, I’m not saying there’s anything weird between Diddy and his mom, but it’s clear that they’re really close, which is fine—except… she’s at the strip club with him? She’s getting IV drips with him? And why is she showing off how she can bend over and put her palms on the floor? Why is that a flex? That’s your mom, Diddy, not your “dog”!
Now, back to the bigger picture. The documentary also mentions how it wasn’t uncommon for kids to walk into rooms where adults were having sex. According to some people who’ve spoken out about Diddy’s notorious parties, it was regular for Diddy’s friends to get involved, even trying to find women for him. It was reportedly normal to accidentally walk into a room and find a couple, fully naked, doing their thing. Diddy himself said that his mom’s party scene could’ve influenced some of his own actions. He shared, “I’ve always been asked why. I don’t know the answer, but I truly believe it all goes back to my childhood.”
Janice Colmes has been very vocal in supporting her son, even recently calling the sex trafficking charges against Diddy a public lynching. But here’s what I think needs to be said—both things can be true. Janice might honestly believe her son is being treated unfairly, and honestly, I get it. Why? Because she’s probably been around the same kind of behavior. See, the thing is, I think a lot of people in Diddy’s circle, both men and women, don’t see the problem with it. To them, it’s just part of being involved with a powerful man. It’s almost like they’ve all accepted it as normal, like that’s just what you put up with when you’re in that world. So, when it comes to Janice understanding what her son did as being illegal—does she even realize that? I’m not sure. I don’t know if she was directly involved in anything, but the rumors say she might’ve even had a brothel running out of her house. It’s hard to say.
Let me be clear: none of these accusations have been proven. This is all based on information in a documentary, and it’s still just speculation. But here’s what I’m thinking—maybe the reason everyone, even Janice, is standing by Diddy is because they’ve been involved in similar things, or maybe worse. That’s all I’m getting at.
As for Diddy, it looks like he’s in deep trouble. The only thing I’m wondering is: who else is involved? I thought the government was going to go after the people allegedly helping him with witness tampering and the other shady stuff. But now, with all this new info about Diddy’s mom, I’m starting to wonder: could she be a co-conspirator too? I’m not saying she took part, but the government’s been clear that anyone who stood by and didn’t act could be in trouble too. Food for thought.
Anyway, that’s my take. Let me know what you think in the comments. Talk to you all later. Bye!
