50 Cent recently spilled some tea about Diddy’s infamous parties, and he’s not holding back. He explained why he avoids these events, noting that Diddy has a strange habit of hugging people from both the front and back at the same time. If that’s your thing, that’s fine, but 50 Cent finds it uncomfortable and prefers to stay away.
50 Cent is known for stirring up drama online, but he’s not the only one who’s pointed out the craziness of Diddy’s parties. In the world of hip-hop, where sex, drugs, and wild behavior often take center stage, these parties can get pretty out of hand. Imagine a woman looking to make a name for herself, who gets invited to one of Puff Daddy’s parties. She might feel the pressure to mingle and get as involved as possible, which can make things even crazier.
50 Cent’s advice? If you’re not into the party’s activities, it’s best to leave before things get too intense. Once the party moves to a private location, it’s usually a sign that things are about to get even wilder. He suggests avoiding these situations, especially if you’re uncomfortable with the crowd or the scene. As he puts it, he wouldn’t join in activities like swimming naked with a bunch of guys—he only sees that happening in specific situations, like a prison shower. If it’s not your scene, it’s best to just get out early.
You know, you mentioned a few times that Puffy would answer the door completely naked. Imagine that—just standing there like a baby. You’d be thinking, “Man, have some respect.” If he saw it was you through the peephole, why would he open the door like that? I’d be like, “Nah, that’s not the kind of invitation I’m looking for.” It felt like a test to see if I’d say something. You know how sometimes people will talk trash about your best friend and expect you to sit there and listen? That’s what it felt like—like he was trying to see if I’d address the fact that he was naked.
Why open the door in the buff and act like it’s no big deal? I’d be like, “Bro, you’re naked. I’ll come back later.” But if I went in and just acted like it was normal, it’d be like those starstruck people who don’t even notice they’re talking to someone naked. I’d be straight up: “Put some clothes on before we chat.”
And then there’s the whole thing with Diddy being accused of rape with Aaron Hall. Do you think Diddy could really be capable of that? Aaron Hall mentioned he had to prove he was the best, even talking about who had the biggest. Comparing sizes among guys is weird enough, and if a guy is that focused on it, it makes you question what’s really going on. Men usually don’t compare themselves like that, and if they do, it might say something about their interests or what they’re into.
I always put morals first in everything I do. Before making any decision, I think, “Is this the right thing?” If it doesn’t feel right, I don’t do it. Simple as that.
So, about Puffy—did you notice if he had certain people he was closer to, or if he treated anyone differently? For example, if we were on the road and I knocked on a door and Puffy answered without clothes, or if I opened a room and found it filled with sweating people, you might wonder what was going on. You’d probably think, “Are they working out? Pull-ups, squats, or something like that?” It’d be odd, right?
Some might say Mark Curry could say no to Puffy, but many artists and celebrities couldn’t, as Jean Deal pointed out. I get that people are interested in these stories because they’re from the past. Maybe if social media or YouTube had been around then, things might have been different. But these are just old stories, and I want to clear things up.
This all started back in Atlanta. I was with Puffy in an exotic bookstore for the first time. I gave him space while he picked out items and put them in a brown paper bag. I noticed he picked up something labeled “butt plugs.” I teased him about it and asked why he needed them. He told me he wanted to shop alone, so I backed off. When he paid, he just handed over a wad of cash, and we left.
Later, we flew from Atlanta to North Carolina for a show on a G5 jet, along with a rapper, Sarah, and another girl.
Later that afternoon, Sarah, Puff, the rapper, and I were hanging out in the presidential suite. I was just standing by the door when someone rang the bell. I answered, and this guy said he was there for his cousin, Jyu. I told him Jyu was busy with Puff and they didn’t want to be disturbed. The guy insisted on going in, but I told him that wasn’t happening.
He didn’t listen and tried to push past me, so I had to stop him. I ended up throwing him against the piano. When that happened, Puff and Jyu bolted out of the room, both of them barely dressed. Jyu asked what was going on, and I explained that the guy had tried to get into the room despite being told not to. Jyu then said, “Puff said you didn’t want anyone coming in because there was a lot of freaky stuff happening.”
So, that was it. The guy left, and the next day at the concert, he and his crew tried to confront me. I told my friend Frank that if someone tried to get into a room where J had said not to let anyone in, I’d do the same thing. Frank agreed. J’s comment about the room being filled with “freaky stuff” made it clear why we had to keep people out. It was definitely a wild situation.
The tension between 50 Cent and Diddy has been brewing since the early 2000s, and it doesn’t look like it’ll settle anytime soon. One of 50 Cent’s most talked-about comments was when he suggested Diddy might be gay, a remark that stirred up quite a bit of controversy.
Here’s a funny story from back then: Diddy almost had the chance to sign 50 Cent. During a meeting at Diddy’s office, 50 Cent and his team were present, but 50 wasn’t really considering a deal with Diddy. He was just exploring his options.
At the time, 50 was riding around in a minivan with no AC, dealing with a bunch of issues, yet still raking in millions. Despite the circumstances, he decided to sit down with Diddy. During the meeting, Diddy made a memorable comment: “Rappers have the three B’s: bank accounts, Bentleys, and you’re a target.”
Diddy then told 50 Cent that he couldn’t sign him because of the ongoing beef with other industry players and the risks involved. The conversation took an odd turn when Diddy said, “We ain’t party like we need to party,” which seemed a bit off to some people.
It got even more awkward when Diddy offered to take 50 Cent shopping, which left 50 feeling uncomfortable and confused. He even joked that the situation was so bizarre it might have ruined the mood.
Later, 50 Cent made light of the situation, suggesting that despite the awkwardness, there was no real hatred—just a mix of misunderstandings and different personalities clashing.